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A Chic French Lockdown – Day 22 – Schedule “Chic” Day
May 11, 2020 In 30 More Chic Days by Fiona Ferris, Day 22 is “French Friday.” The idea behind the term “French Friday,” according to Fiona, is that there was a set-aside day specifically to try a new idea to incorporate something small and “French” into her week. It was nice to have a day on the calendar when she would intentionally try a new chic idea or bring back an old idea that had inexplicably fallen by the wayside. Fiona writes that she might upgrade one aspect of self-care, put on her favorite “Paris Cafe” playlist while she was preparing dinner the kitchen or maybe she might plan to…
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A Chic Paris Lockdown – Day 21 – What is in a Name?
May 10, 2020 “Reframe Everything to be Beautiful, Magical and Luxurious” is the title to Day 21 in Fiona Ferris’s book, 30 More Chic Days. Fiona writes that what she names something is a powerful method to either draw her closer to the thing or push her away from it. She gives the example of a supplement of organic flaxseed oil combined with safflower oil. The name was Beauty Oil – she asks “who wouldn’t be drawn to it?” If the name was Health Oil that would be pretty attractive. We all want to be healthy. But the name Beauty Oil, Fiona writes, was a more powerful draw. The concept…
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A Chic Paris Lockdown – Day 18 – Integration In The Third Act
May 7, 2020 Day 18 is “Embrace Your Inner Bombshell” in Fiona Ferris’s book, 30 More Chic Days. Fiona writes about discovering a part of herself that she had hidden away – the Bombshell. She had been uncomfortable with her “bombshell” traits such as loving tacky television shows, being opinionated, preferring girly-girl surroundings and talking too much when excited about a topic. These felt “too much of a muchness” to her, especially considering that she also loved all topics about French chic, neutral colors and classical music. These genuine but differing tastes couldn’t go together, could they? Happily for Fiona, she found a word to describe her secret self…
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A Chic Paris Lockdown – Day 16 – Choose Happy
May 5, 2020 In 30 More Chic Days, Fiona Ferris titles Day 16 “Be the Happiest Person You Know.” She encourages us to consciously adopt a positive, optimistic outlook on life. This “Day” is all about what is going on inside our heads. This has nothing to do with winning the lottery or discovering the cure for cancer. It’s all about how we want to feel deep down inside, right here and now. Fiona writes that given a choice between being around someone who is smiling and happy to share a new interest with you or being around someone who is all “gloom and doom”, “the world is going to…
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A Chic Paris Lockdown – Day 15 – Dining With Style
May 4, 2020 Fiona Ferris calls Day 15 “Elevate Your Dining Experience” in her book, 30 More Chic Days. Her idea is that we are chic and elegant individuals and we can enjoy an attractive and elegant dining experience. Her suggestion is to use cloth napkins. She claims that they are low maintenance, friendlier to the environment than paper napkins and look much nicer. We will both enjoy by our lovelier, more refined table and be inspired to be a bit lovelier and more refined with our eating choices and table manners. I wasn’t quite sold on the claim that the cloth napkins would be low maintenance with my two…
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A Chic Paris Lockdown – Day 14 – Elegant and Active At All Ages
May 3, 2020 Fiona Ferris titles Day 14 “Grow Better Every Year” in her book, 30 More Chic Days. She writes about aging as “growing better each year.” Fiona definitely has a good point about how our attitude and our actions have a great deal with determining how we experience any of our years. Our later years are likewise heavily influenced by our mental perspective and habits. We’ve all seen inspiring examples of people who move with grace and vitality through different stages of life. And we’ve seen the sad opposite. Our best option, as Fiona writes, is to create a chic vision of the people we want to be…
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A Chic Paris Lockdown – Day 11 – Rest & Recharge
April 30, 2020 Fiona Ferris calls Day 11 “Honour Your Feminine Heart” in her book, 30 More Chic Days. In this chapter, Fiona writes about the need to take a break from our daily to-do list and do an activity that feeds our souls. Or to be more accurate, schedule a little time as part of our to-do list to do something purely for joy. It seems as if modern life adores busy, busy, busy. I sometimes wonder within my own, American culture if the cult of “busy” and “over-scheduled” is considered to be a mark of pride. If you ask someone how are they doing, the answer is…
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A Chic Paris Lockdown – Day 10 – How to Use That La Vacance Feeling!
April 29, 2020 Day 10 is “From Paris to the South of France” in 30 More Chic Days by Fiona Ferris. When Fiona moved from the city to a more rural village in New Zealand, she used the idea of being a Parisian who had moved to the South of France to help her adjust to and enjoy the transition to her new location. Transition can be difficult even if it’s a hoped-for and planned change. By using her imagination and framing the transition in a uniquely inspiring way, Fiona was able to have fun with the process. Living here in lockdown Paris, transition seems to be the…
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A Chic Paris Lockdown – Day 9 – Channel Chanel
April 28, 2020 “Have a Closet Like Coco” is the title for Day 9 in Fiona Ferris’s book, 30 More Chic Days. Fiona writes that Coco Chanel can give us a few pointers for living the chic life of our dreams. Coco created a unique, specific style vision for herself and she lived according to that vision. What the rest of the world was doing and wearing was not important to her. Coco’s style was comfortable, distinctive and timeless. Her color palette was flattering and consistent. She created a style that suited her preferences and her lifestyle and stuck with it throughout her life. What can we learn from…
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A Chic Paris Lockdown – Day 8 – Summer Style
April 27, 2020 Fiona Ferris calls Day 8 “Be Chic In The Summer” in her book, 30 More Chic Days. Fiona writes about how she keeps her “chic” when temperatures and humidity are high. She addresses wardrobe, hair and skincare. For those of us in the Northern Hemisphere, this “Day” is particularly appropriate because summer is rapidly approaching. I looked at two parts of this chapter: clothes and hair. When I live in the US, I’m in a very hot, humid Southern state. To compound the challenge, most indoor spaces like grocery stores or department stores have the air-conditioning temperature set very low. I kid you not, I keep…